
This is one of the most common — and frustrating — phrases women hear when they’re trying to conceive.
Your doctor runs basic labs.
You wait for the call.
And then you’re told:
You wait for the call.
And then you’re told:
“Everything looks normal.”
But cycles pass.
Months go by.
And nothing changes.
Months go by.
And nothing changes.
If this has been your experience, I want you to know something important:
A normal lab result does not always mean a fertility-supportive one.
What “Normal” Really Means in Medicine
Most lab reference ranges are created by looking at large populations — not women actively trying to conceive.
They’re designed to:
- identify disease
- rule out emergencies
- flag extreme dysfunction
They are not designed to:
- optimize ovulation
- support implantation
- predict egg quality
- account for age-related shifts
This is especially important after 35, when fertility becomes more sensitive to subtle imbalances.
Why This Matters More as You Get Older
As we age, the body has less margin for error.
Small imbalances that didn’t matter at 28 can interfere with conception at 37 or 40.
That’s why women over 35 often need:
- more precise interpretation
- better timing of tests
- a broader view of how systems work together
Not because their bodies are broken — but because fertility is more nuanced.
Does Fertility Really Drop Off a Cliff After 35? What Actually Matters Instead
Common Areas That Are “Normal” — But Still Problematic
Here are a few examples I see often:
Thyroid
TSH may fall within range, but:
- free T3 may be low
- antibodies may be present
- iron deficiency may be suppressing function
Any of these can interfere with ovulation and early pregnancy.
Progesterone
Progesterone is often tested — but at the wrong time.
A “normal” level drawn too early or too late can miss:
- weak ovulation
- short luteal phases
- implantation challenges
Timing matters as much as the number.
Iron (Ferritin)
Hemoglobin may look fine while ferritin is depleted.
Low iron stores can quietly affect:
- ovulation
- thyroid function
- implantation
- early pregnancy support
Yet ferritin is often skipped entirely.
Inflammation and Immune Stress
These are rarely evaluated unless there’s a clear medical reason.
But low-grade inflammation can disrupt hormone signaling and implantation — even when everything else looks “normal.”
6 Hidden Causes of Unexplained Infertility Most Doctors Don’t Test For
This Is Not About Doing More — It’s About Seeing More Clearly
Hearing that your labs are normal can feel invalidating.
It can make you question your intuition.
It can make you wonder if you’re imagining things.
It can delay progress.
It can make you wonder if you’re imagining things.
It can delay progress.
But clarity is empowering.
When you understand what your labs are actually showing — and what they’re not — you can make decisions with confidence instead of confusion.
How This Fits Into Your Fertility Plan
This is why the early phase of a fertility plan focuses on:
- asking better questions
- interpreting labs in context
- looking at patterns, not isolated numbers
It’s not about chasing perfection.
It’s about giving your body the support it needs to do what it’s designed to do.
It’s about giving your body the support it needs to do what it’s designed to do.
If you want to revisit how to prioritize these steps, start with
The First 90 Days of Your Fertility Plan: What to Focus on Right Now.
The First 90 Days of Your Fertility Plan: What to Focus on Right Now.
A Supportive Next Step
If you’ve been told everything is normal — but your experience says otherwise — a Hope & Clarity Call can help you sort through what’s missing.
It’s a calm, judgment-free space to:
- review what’s already been tested
- identify gaps
- decide what actually matters next
👉 Schedule your Hope & Clarity Call here:
https://ericahoke.com/scheduler/next-steps-20-minute-call
https://ericahoke.com/scheduler/next-steps-20-minute-call
And if you’d like a simple overview of overlooked fertility factors:
👉 Download the free guide:
The Unexplained Infertility Breakthrough: 5 Overlooked Keys to Help You Conceive Faster
https://ericahoke.com/page/causes-of-unexplained-infertility
The Unexplained Infertility Breakthrough: 5 Overlooked Keys to Help You Conceive Faster
https://ericahoke.com/page/causes-of-unexplained-infertility
Final Thought
If you’ve been doing everything “right” and still aren’t pregnant, it’s not because you failed.
It’s often because the full picture hasn’t been seen yet.
And clarity changes everything.











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